Geaux in Peace

I just lost a friend. Every fiber of my being knows she is gone, yet reality is perception and does not allow me to mourn the way I feel I should. I still expect to see her, smiling, laughing, or rolling her eyes at the ridiculousness life throws at us every day. I have shed tears, but they come from seeing other people in pain, not from my own.

Not yet.

Everyone keeps asking if I’m okay, and I say “I’m fine” or “I’m good” without really thinking about if those statements are true. Sometimes I wonder if I’m still in denial or if I’ve shut down in an effort to spare myself the pain I know is lurking inside me. I see my other friends weeping freely and envy them that ability. Yet I can’t say the words I want, so I’ve come back to write them.

To my friend,

I wish I could have said goodbye and told you how much you meant to me. I wish I could have one more dinner together just talking about our lives, our travels, or just enjoying each other’s company. Whenever I felt left out, there was always you to make me feel not alone. Whenever I was troubled you listened. You laughed at my jokes, lame as they were sometimes.

It was almost scary how much we thought alike on certain things, and astounding about how much we differed on others. Yet we accepted our differences and celebrated our similarities, and I loved you for it.

I started to distance myself, not just from you, but from everybody, due to circumstances that had nothing to do with you, and everything to do with my own cowardice, and for that I’m so sorry. Like so many, too many, I took for granted there would be time. Time to sort through my problems and maybe try to reconnect, but you were betrayed by your body and taken far too soon.

So I sit here, numb and wanting to grieve, but still hoping to see your smile one more time. I sit with the knowledge that my pain and grief pales in comparison to your family’s. Another friend of ours, and you can probably guess who, thanked them for the privilege of creating you so we could know you for just a little while, and I want to add my thanks to them as well. You were truly a special person, which I don’t think you realized. That lack of realization made us love you all the more.

Goodbye and I hope you knew how much you were loved while you were with us.

I love you, kiddo.




Be Back Soon

I’ve been away for a while due to “technical difficulties.” I finally found a moment to drop a quick note to say I’ll be back full-force soon. I’ve been missing everyone and can’t wait to be back full-time.

I apologize to my readers and thank you for your patience.

I’ll see you soon.

J. Milburn

Feb. Music Passion – Smile

A new month means a new music passion from allaboutlemon! This month’s passion is the word “smile”. So find your favorite songs with the word “smile” in the lyrics or title and join in the fun. Here a few of mine.

This group’s name is not cool to do on Halloween, but the music is good:

This next group makes me wonder what happened to Water:

This one fits the criteria, but will probably have the opposite effect (advisory for language):

And now for something completely different (Joker fans, this one’s for you):


Hope you enjoy.

Happy Listening!

J. Milburn

I Need Your Input

I’ve created several worlds in various genres. I enjoy each of them, which makes it difficult for me to choose which one to expand to a full-length book. So I am turning to you, dear readers, for help.

Which world/storyline would you like to see turned into book form? Please take a moment to click on the poll below. Your assistance is much appreciated.


The poll will be up for a week and I will follow the winner, with updates along the way. If you aren’t familiar with some of the stories, each can be found in the sidebar.

Thank you for your help.

J. Milburn